Female Masturbation The G-SPOT Massage
The importance of a woman’s clitoris as the source of her greatest sexual pleasure was driven home in the Kinsey studies of the mid-40s, but in 1950, a German obstetrician/gynecologist named Ernst Grafenberg, wrote of a highly sensitive area located inside a woman’s vagina. His article appeared in a German medical journal and received little attention by the general public. This erogenous spot had been ignored by writers of sexuality books for lovers until 1982, when the team of Alice Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John Perry published their book titled The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries about Human Sexuality. In honor of Dr. Grafenberg, they named the sensitive area “the Grafenberg spot,” (G Spot) playfully abbreviating this to simply “the G Spot.” This book has never gone out of print and has been translated into 19 foreign languages.
As seen in the diagram, the area known as the G Spot is located in and up (if the woman is on her back). It can be stimulated by inserting one (or two fingers if this is comfortable for the woman) and bending them up, pushing up firmly into the top of surface the vaginal canal… up behind her pubic bone. Curling the fingers, as though motioning someone to “come here” then stimulates this area. As many women become aroused, this area begins to swell, increasing from about the size of a pea to perhaps the size of a quarter.
This is an area to explore, but each woman is unique. Some will report pleasurable sensations, some will be indifferent, and some will find it annoying. Since women differ in what they like, a considerate lover will always ask for a woman’s feedback when trying something new. Stimulation can then be adjusted to what feels best to her. When next learning about your partner’s body, the G Spot area might be an area you will want to playfully (and carefully) explore.
Here are some good, basic rules to follow for a successful G-area healing session.
1. The facilitator should always have the intent to heal and pleasure.
Female G-Spot Massage Techniques 2
2. Take the time to “wake up” the area. Massage her thighs, top and bottom, stomach, breasts, and her rear end. Let her relax and become accustomed to your touch. Harmonize your moods. Encourage her to breathe deeply and exhale with sound. Sound will always increase the pleasure. Breathe with her and follow her sounds, making sounds with her. It will help you to “vibrate” with her feelings better, and she will feel additional loving encouragement from you.
3. When you feel it is time to approach her genitals, ask permission first. This lets her know that you respect her body as hers and that she always has choice. This also gives her encouragement to express her desires…she may not yet be ready. Many women are not accustomed to having their readiness or feelings considered. You want her to WANT YOU to touch her. Begin by touching the outer areas with soft caresses and touches. NO RUBBING at first. The area could go numb before you’ve even begun! Tease her a little, have her wanting more!
4. When you feel it is time to touch her inner labia, ask permission again. Then, make sure that there is plenty of lubrication. It is best to assume that hers may not be plentiful enough, so either wet your fingers with your saliva or use a lubricant. Never enter the inner lips without lubrication, as it is uncomfortable for her. Continue to tease and tantalize her, only barely flirting with her vaginal opening and her clitoris. Build the anticipation. It makes it more fun and more intense.
5. Once she is fully aroused, begin by gently, slowly and lovingly feeling the muscles just outside the vaginal entry. Whenever you do this work, begin by moving slowly. Your fingers can sense more, and she can feel your touch at a deeper level. Ask her if she feels any tenderness there. If so, then gently press in on that spot until you feel resistance, or she tells you to stop. You want to gently press on the area so that she is aware of the discomfort, but not yet where she wants to back away. Encourage her to breathe and make sounds along with you while you watch for some form of release. Often this acupressure approach can turn into its own orgasm.
Keep checking with her and she will let you know whether to increase the pressure, or back off. Encourage her to feel all that is coming up for her…. words, thoughts, emotions. The two of you can use the sound making techniques to help her “get into feeling her feelings” even more. You may encounter shivers, groans, growling, tears, hysteria, sobs, orgiastic bliss, or all of them! As her lover, please stay focused on her at all times, maintain eye contact so that she knows you are there for her, and let her feelings fully express!
It is important not to take any of these reactions personally. Just hold the space for her to express. Don’t say anything, except to nurture, support, or encourage her. DON’T TRY TO FIX IT! Just let her feel and be.
Then when she indicates that she feels complete for that area, move to another muscular area and do more of the same.
6. Eventually, it will be time to enter the vaginal opening. Again ask for permission. It is important that the timing is right for her! If you are using a Crystal Wand, begin by using your fingers up until this moment, or you can start with fingers, and change to the Crystal Wand later (a lot of lovers do this when their fingers get tired and their partner is still going!). Continue with the same procedure on the inner walls of the vagina, slowly working your way up to the G-area.
7. At the G-area check with your partner to see if the touches you are giving her are pleasurable. Start with the acupressure technique described above. The tissue will begin to swell as the touch becomes more pleasurable. Once it swells, you can experiment with other forms of stimulation…. rubbing side to side (first gently, and then increasing the pressure and pace as her arousal gains momentum)…tapping…. stroking down and up…two fingers, etc. Stay focused, watch her response, and respond to her reaction. Let her lead this dance! It will increase her feelings of safety and her pleasure. Try to stay as connected to her as you can through eye contact, sound and breath! With practice you may be surprised to find yourself feeling her feelings!
When stimulating the G-area during regular lovemaking, it is advisable to be prepared to switch to healing mode, if she moves into deep emotion. It is also wise to integrate many of these techniques into your everyday play, as appropriate, such as asking permission, watching to make sure that there is always plenty of lubrication, staying focused and attentive to your lover, and taking the time to “wake her up” before you plunge into more intense stimulation.
With newbies, sometimes the beginning takes a little time and perseverance, but with patience, the rewards are gaining greater emotional and physical health, greater intimacy, and bigger and better orgasms! I wish you joyous adventures!
G Spot real stories
From the archive: Deluxe Rabbit Pearl Vibrator
I have to admit it: the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl had me abit intimidated. I had heard all of the hype over the original Rabbit after the Sex and the City episode, and had seen it in several shops and online. When it arrived, it was bigger than I had recalled and seemed to have an awful lot of bells and whistles. Don�t get me wrong: it is sooo pretty, with it�s hot pink silicone, elegant pearls and adorable rabbit, but I wasn�t sure if it was going to live up to the hoopla—I was pessimistic to say the least! I actually put it aside for a couple of days, until spending an evening watching an incredibly erotic film. When the movie was over and it was time for lights out; I was feeling the familiar flush of arousal. I slipped out of my robe and into my bed with the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl in hand. I knew I was in the mood for something naughty, and since I did want to write my review on this one, I figured what better time to try it out!
If you have read any of my reviews or stories, you know that I love a good fantasy and treasure the power of the imagination. I was already feeling very hot from the film, so adding thoughts of the perfect partner to the mix really got me going. My dream lover is always a tall and dark haired man. I picture rugged features, olive skin, deep, dark eyes and large, strong hands. I like to begin with a bit of flirting that leads to the slow unbuttoning of shirts and kisses along his perfect chest. From there, our lips meet, and I can almost feel the warmth of our tongues as they intertwine in our wet mouths. I got as far as the two of us lying naked, and the feel of his weight on top of me, before turning on the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl and easing it inside of me. I was abit distracted at first by the sound of the pearls rotating, but once inside, you really can�t hear it. The feeling of it rotating inside of me was very different than the more traditional vibrators. I then pressed the button to begin the little rabbit ears vibrating and was impressed by its strength! It took me a second to adjust it so that it was just deep enough and turned in a way that I could make full use of the clitoral stimulator. Once settled, I attempted to resume my fantasy, but was overwhelmed by all the pleasure that the Rabbit brought on! The size of the shaft was perfectly filling, while the rotating seemed to apply pressure, which once combined with the vibrating against my clit; caused my entire body to tingle! I tried to imagine that it was my dream man, fucking me like never before, but never got that far; I came right away—hard and fast! It was a record for me!
This vibrator has officially lived up to all of its hype, and let me tell you that its reputation sells it short! Whether you are a woman who is incredibly orgasmic or someone who has trouble climaxing—the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl will blow your mind! I admit that since first trying it, I have become orgasm greedy! I have never been one who rushes any of life�s pleasures and always want to savor every moment, but this toy has forced some sweet impatience on me. There is no waiting or trying to cum with this gem: this amazing toy has the power to make you cum in less than two minutes! It has the skill that women wish all men could be born with! Surely a treasure that no woman should be without!
Penis size - does it matter?
What do women think about penis size? And does it really make any difference to sex?
| Penis size. Does it really make any difference to sex? Sue, sitting on my sofa, was clear: “Sure it matters! I’ve had some massive ones in my time, and I really enjoyed them!” My flatmates and I looked at each other, subdued. “It’s true,” said Helen, looking at the floor, “the bigger the penis, the better the feeling.” The look on Sophie’s face suggested she was dreaming of a time when she, too, had been impaled on the end of a massive penis. And it wasn’t a look that suggested she was regretting the experience. | |||
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| The next interesting part of her story was about the time she had sex with a man whose penis was nine inches long. The problem, she said, was that the condom only went halfway down his penis. In my naivety, I said, “Wasn’t it a bit big for you?”‘ She hesitated for a moment. Then, a bit self-consciously, she said: “No, I rather enjoyed it.” | |||
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So, if the evidence is to be believed, listening to what heterosexual women are saying means we have to acknowledge penis size does actually matter - to some of them at least. When I asked lots more women about penis size, I found a huge variety of answers to my questions: some women didn’t like big dicks at all, some thought average size ones were fine, some liked huge ones, and some didn’t care at all about penis size. But whatever the women said about penis size, they all spoke in terms of pleasure. And if you think about it, this is very different to the way men talk about penis size: men talk about penis size as though it represents status and power. | ||
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I am very fortunate in that my partner loves the way my penis stimulates her G spot, even though it is not particularly big. And she just loves having me inside her. Again, of course, this represents the principle that for a woman pleasure - however she achieves it - is more important than penis size itself. And it’s true: when discussing penetration, women use words like filling, stretching, friction, satisfying, rubbing, feeling: words that relate to physical sensation. Men, however, seem to have a more fundamental response: expressions I’ve heard used about penis size include ‘big swinging dick’, ’showing it off’, ’swinging in the locker room’, ‘how much of a man you are’ and so on. These are expressions about power, status, and prestige. Words that, when you think about it, relate to competition with other men and a feeling of being the top dog rather representing any sense of what women want. |
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But most men do not see penis size in terms of the pleasure it will give a woman. In fact it seems to me that men’s obsession with penis size is all about male vanity: firstly in the belief that if one has a big penis one will be a better lover, or somehow attract more women, or be more confident as a man. And secondly a man might desire a huge penis because he believes his lover will have a great time, say what a wonderful lover he is, and thereby make him feel more masculine. And thirdly so that women just take one look and say, “Fuck me, look at the cock on him!” |
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I think for men a big size penis is a bit like a sports car - something you own that makes you feel more of a man. There is no doubt that the majority of men think “bigger equals better.” No wonder then that so many men whose prized possession resembles a bean or an acorn rather than a marrow or a cucumber want to convince themselves that size doesn’t matter, and hate hearing women saying that, well, actually, in some ways it does matter! But the reason it matters to men is because they think women are saying real men have big cocks. And this is not what women are saying at all. I doubt you would find many women who are measuring a man’s masculinity by his penis size. When a woman says “a big penis feels nicer”, the man hears her say “a big penis means you’re more of a man or a better lover.” In fact she’s saying that a big penis feels nicer! | ||
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When men accept that penis size can influence a woman’s pleasure and enjoyment of sex, things will be much better for everyone. Men can see the situation honestly and know that deficiencies in the size department can be compensated for in other ways - new techniques, being a better lover, learning more about what turns their partner on. And this all means they will come to understand more clearly what their woman actually wants. Remember the joke: a bastard is a man who fucks you with a three inch cocks and then kisses you goodbye with a six inch tongue. It may be a woman’s joke, but what it says is clear: men, stop being so penis-obsessed and realize you can do other things that send women into raptures. |
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Prostate Massage with a Finger
Prostate massagers are designed so they stimulate the prostate, Anal canal,and perineum. This combination of stimulation ensures the highest chance of success for achieving orgasmic success and discovering new ways to achieve sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Partaking in sexual activity with a partner can be a deeply enjoyable experience, and enriching to a relationship.
Prostate massage can be done with a specialised toy, or with a well-placed finger. The instructions provided on this website go over both methods..
Our Six Step Guide to Prostate Massage for Couples
Step 1: Arousal
When embarking on an Anal exploration, lubricant is essential. Have some handy. You may wish to use a latex glove or condom over your finger. Not only is this hygienic, it will feel smoother and better inside. Make sure you have a short nail on the finger you intend to use so it doesn’t tear the Anal canal. The index finger is easy.
It is helpful for the session if he is slightly aroused prior to inserting anything anally. The prostate swells when a man is aroused, so it is easier to feel. Additionally, his Anal sphincter muscles will be more relaxed if there is some arousal. Licking or rubbing the anus area while stimulating the penis relaxes the area, allowing for easier penetration.
Step 2: Lube the Anus
Thoroughly lubricate your finger and hand area. Gently lubricate the anus. This can be done as part of arousal.
Step 3: Insert the Finger
First rule: go gently! Especially if this is his first time, he will be experiencing this acutely. While stimulating his penis however you choose - mouth, hand, body - work your finger slowly and gently around his anus. Probe slightly, find which direction the tube faces. Put your finger is slightly to just past your nail, and then slowly pull it out again. Do thisa couple of times and make sure everything is alright with him. Keeping the very pleasant stimulation on his penis normally ensures his cooperation! Slowly put your whole finger in very gently. Move your finger around slightly inside.
Step 4: Finding the Prostate Gland (Male G-Spot)
Inside on the front wall near his penis, you will find a small round ridge. It is about 1.5 inches in, so gently feel around until you can feel it. Rub it slowly and rhythmically, and check to see what this feels like for him. It should start to feel very pleasurable. Increase the speed and pressure slightly, keeping in communication regularly as to how it feels for him.
Step 5: You Know The Rest!
Go for it. Play around and see what feels good, what feels great, what you like and what you don’t. Keep building rhythm and pressure. You will feel the prostate contract when orgasm has begun. Remember practice makes perfect, so if you don’t get it right the first time, don’t give up. There is a method to this madness!
Health and Safety of Prostate Massage with a Finger Risks:
The biggest risk when using a finger for prostate massage is tearing the delicate tissue of the Anal canal with a nail or over-vigorous actions. Go slowly, and gently. Bacterial infection risk is very low. Wash the finger thoroughly with warm water and soap after it has been in contact with the Anal area. Using a glove or condom on your finger can help prevent the spread of bacteria.
Step 6: Removing the Finger
Removal of the finger from the area should also be slow and gentle.
Lubricant: Always use lubricant with Anal play.
Douching: Douching first can prevent any risk of soiling accident or embarrassment. Anal douches
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AROUSAL AND GENERATING SENSATIONS WITH ANEROS
It is important to remember that the journey from the penile centered approach to the non-ejaculatory orgasm or Super O is really an evolution of sorts. Turning away from the powerful sensations that are the precursors of an ejaculation to the relatively subtle sensations that characterize a Super O is not easy, particularly if you’re not familiar with what these non-ejaculatory precursors feel like in the first place! Where do you feel them? What do they feel like? They may be felt in the anus, rectum, perineum, pelvis and abdomen (think of a midpoint between ones navel and the pubic bone, then deep within the body cavity). The sensations themselves may be described as tickling or tingling at times and as they follow through to Super O a deep and intense surging. In the past, I’ve suggested that a very subtle form of these sensations may be perceived once in a while when one is yawning or perhaps stretching. Both of these activities involve contraction of the abdomen and diaphragm and may even have some deeper pelvic interaction as well.
The manufacturer has emphasized an approach that seeks to encourage involuntary contractions through systematic exercise and the consequent fatigue of the Anal musculature. Ostensibly it’s a means of kick-starting the non-ejaculatory response. The idea is that once started these involuntary contractions initiate a positive feedback loop with the aid of the Aneros‘ abutment tab at the perineal acupressure point (Sweet Spot), which propagates a Super O.
The fact is however, that it’s not necessarily so. In my experience, even a good salvo of involuntaries may be insufficient to take the positive feedback loop to a truly self-propagating level and thus generate a Super O. I believe that more is required to initiate and sustain the non-ejaculatory response. This is where playing with your various tools or techniques come into play. What are the tools ? Anal contractions (low level, moderate and hard), rectal contractions, lower abdominal contractions, breathing (valley breathing and vibratory breathing)…and last but most importantly mental focus. Mental focus is without a doubt the passport to the Super O. With mental focus you can coalesce the many disparate pleasure sensations created with the techniques outlined above into one wave and ride that wave into a Super O. To a certain extent it’s about directing your attention to the proper places, while at the same time increasing your level of arousal. I know what you’re thinking. You want a specific formula. Over the last several years between this forum and my email correspondence with other users, I’ve been searching for the common links for deriving such a formula. So far my experience has shown that users are far better off when they explore on their own with the techniques that I’ve suggested rather than with any kind of rigid formula. Why? In part because there are subtle differences in how we are all wired; position and degree of sensitivity of the perineal acupressure point and the prostate are both factors that can have influence on how much of what works when. But just as importantly it’s because people end up getting too hung up on following instructions. If one becomes too cognitively engaged, one ends up ignoring what’s happening on a sensory level and then…you’re lost. This all involves time, patience and self-discovery and most of all having a solid commitment to creating an orgasm in a totally new way.
I’ll try to recap some things in general terms to set you in the right direction.
Positions
On the back, side lying and kneeling (with knees next to the bed and torso and head laying on the bed) are my favorites (and probably most suited for newbies). Ironically the only position that worked for me originally was lying on back. Gradually I found success with different positions until today, just about any position works for me. On all fours (which I think you mentioned) is great for generating arousal but can be more difficult for going all the way with. In general it’s good to start with a position that affords you some stability (a position you can hold indefinitely without fatigue), so you are free to focus on other things.
Setting the stage
A good hot shower and some decent erotica are all part of setting the stage. Experiment with forms of stimulation that do not involve direct penile stimulation, external Anal massage, Anal contractions, nipple tugging, abdominal massage, perineal stimulation, scrotal stimulation etc. The idea here is to ratchet up the arousal/ sexual tension without direct penile stimulation. As you do these things become aware of subtle feedback that your body gives you. Can you feel your prostate swell? Do you perhaps sense a tickling or tingling in your anus, scrotum, perineum, abdomen etc? Experiment with breathing and try a lower abdominal expansion while you do so. Bear down rectally and as you do so become aware of sensations (if any) in your prostate and anus.
Many of these techniques are going to be explored further once you introduce the Aneros, but for now just play with them a little a see where they take you by themselves.
Lubrication
This is a topic that has received a tremendous amount of attention (too much) in the forum. In a nutshell, if you choose to prelubricate (and it’s a good idea for most newbies) all you need are one or two infant droppers full of one of the thinner glycerin preparations (ID Glide, KY liquid, WET etc.). After that, all that’s left is lubricating the Aneros itself with copious amounts of KY JELLY prior to insertion. It is NOT necessary to take a KY enema to effectively lubricate oneself. Between the small amount of prelubrication (which is internal, so it won’t dry up) and the jelly application outside, the Aneros is about as mobile as it will ever get! So do this, then forget about it!
Warm-up
Start with the manufacturers instructions (20 minutes or so) to begin with, but do so loosely, don’t get hung up on following them to the letter. But if these exercises don’t get the involuntaries happening, don’t sweat it.
Exploration
One suggestion I have is to start by establishing a base level contraction. This will be a low level contraction that you maintain throughout the entire session. Stay with this contraction for several minutes before introducing any harder contractions, just so you can become accustomed to what it feels like (it may feel different later when you return to it from a higher magnitude contraction and you want to be able to recognize that). Also, as opposed to just alternating between Anal and rectal contractions try also using them simultaneously. That being said, when doing them simultaneously be sure to use the rectal contraction in a more measured way. Why? Because a rectal contraction involves a larger muscle group which can over-power the Anal contraction completely. So explore some fine-tuning with it. Again, the idea here is not really to get a workout per se as much as it is to generate sensation Here’s the key ; pleasurable sensations trump all. If you learn to generate pleasurable sensations through Anal, rectal, and abdominal contractions and rhythmic breathing and learn to magnify and center these sensations through mental focus, you will find the Super O. In this way creating the Super O is much less a mechanical process of thrusting or slamming yourself to an orgasm (penile centered mindset), as it is a dance between mind and body. For this reason I usually encourage newbies to explore and have fun with it, and be a little less directed in the beginning.
The following exercises are an illustration of how several techniques may be combined to encourage involuntaries and generate sensation. Start with a set of 16 moderate contractions holding for about 10 - 12 seconds each. Inhale slowly into the lower abdomen (vibrating your diaphragm) while contracting, and exhaling with the release. When releasing these contractions be sure to come back to the base level contraction for about 4 seconds. Be observant of any sensations or twitching that may arise (this may occur during or after the moderate contraction. If any sensation is observed, allow yourself to enjoy it no matter how subtle it is. (Pleasure itself is arousing…so don’t ignore it). After this first set try adding another technique to the mix for the next set. While holding this contraction introduce a rectal contraction as well (this is a bearing down – pushing out contraction). Anal and rectal contractions work antagonistically, one pushing in the other pushing out, very often interesting sensations can be developed by working these techniques simultaneously. Again, between contractions always come back to the base level (that is, so you’re never letting go entirely) and when you do be observant of any sensations that may come your way. Alternatively you may exhale with contraction and inhale with release. Mixing up techniques like this is a great way to get aquainted with your body in new way and generate sensations at the same time.
VERY IMPORTANT; if you feel something building DON”T hammer it with a strong contraction. Instead approach it very gingerly with a slightly upgraded Anal contraction for example. It’s almost like fishing; when you feel a nibble you don’t want to pull the hook out of the fish’s mouth before it’s really set. The same goes for the Super O. When you feel encouraging sensations, think more in terms of supporting them or bolstering them with some supportive contractions and rhythmic breathing. Once the orgasm is imminent, you may employ stronger contractions to constructive ends. Try holding your breath slightly and bearing down . Only hold for 10 secs. or so (anoxia is no the goal). OR bear down (rectal contraction) with a slight Anal contraction while executing some short panting (quick inhalation and exhalation but with very little air exchanged so you are neither hyperventilating or becoming anoxic, while doing this expand your lower abdomen as if filling with air. You get a couple of things from this, lower abdominal expansion (which gives a nice full sensation in the pelvic region), vibration of the diaphragm, and Anal/ rectal tension which creates more sensory input at the same time.
Visualization
Visualization is the process by which one uses the focus on a mental image for a specific purpose or goal. This technique can be very useful in that (with it) your body may actually coordinate certain responses almost involuntarily. So what kind of images does one use? Generally any image that gets you really aroused. My preference is to use more abstract images. For instance I rarely use images about intercourse or a session with my wife. Why? I find them too distracting. I want the focus to be on me as much as possible, therefore I use images that involve something happening with my body.
One of the images I use involves being penetrated. No this is not a gay fantasy, (there isn’t really a mental picture of someone else being involved at all) yet it’s something that I’ve found arousing and centering at the same time. I visualize being penetrated (in an abstract way, by some object or some energy) as I pull the Aneros in with an Anal contraction. At the same time I find myself excitedly inhaling in a ratcheting fashion (as if one was going to sneeze), it occurs almost like a light panting that vibrates my diaphragm. I yield a rectal contraction to push the unit out very slightly and hold my breath very slightly as I do so (several seconds). As I draw it in again with an Anal contraction I inhale and expand my lower abdomen and become aware of the fullness there. As I gently and slowly work the Aneros in and out, I visualize and mentally focus on a center in my pelvic area extended straight upward from my rectum into my abdomen (a point below the navel and above the my pubic bone. I imagine the Aneros touching this area with every stroke, and with every stroke a sensation growing. A tickling sensation emerges that grows in magnitude and I can feel my prostate swell. Occasionally as my rectum pushes the Aneros out, I contract my anus at the same time, as if I trying to hold on to the unit to keep it from being expelled. The tickling sensation increases and becomes a surging that I feel in my abdomen, prostate, anus and rectum. As sensations increase I mentally direct and focus these sensations through that point in my abdomen and as I do I notice the sensations grow in magnitude. Now I am becoming aware of the unit drawing in on it’s own and I can feel the abutment tab dig into my perineum. My penis becomes very engorged and very erect. My anus starts to contract spastically moving the abutment simultaneously and the surging keeps on growing until I think I’m going to explode and then suddenly I’m there. Intense blissful surging waves of pleasure sweep over my entire body…the Super O.
Keep in mind that even though I’ve spoken about the Aneros moving in and out in the above illustration, the excursion (distance moved from in stroke to out) is really very small. It is important to understand that large-scale movements do not necessarily trigger the Super O response at all. If that were the case, dildos and such would have been used for this purpose long ago. No, instead it is the subtle yet precise movements of the Aneros, coupled with an open and adequately aroused subject that makes for success.
Again it bears repeating; pleasurable sensations trump all. If you learn to generate pleasurable sensations through Anal, rectal, and abdominal contractions and rhythmic breathing and learn to magnify and center these sensations through mental focus, you will find the Super O.
Hope this helps!
Good luck
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Krystal Dolphin rabbut vibrator
You know, I really love vibration, so I was pretty stoked to give the Krystal Dolphin a whirl; especially when I put three AA batteries in it and cranked up that pussy shaker, lol! I thought my hand was going to shake off, and my eyes lit up! The controls are simple, just a silding control for vibration speed in the clitoral stimulator, and another for rotation speed for the beads in the shaft.
On top of being pretty powerful, it’s just pretty, with a sparkling caribbean blue shaft and clit stimulator that sparkles, and since the shaft is a bit wider than most vibes, I thought, hmmm, form AND function, what could be better? LOL it’s 9 inches overall, but of course part of that is the mechanism and battery area, so you wind up with about 4 1/2 insertable length. Like I said, the girth is a little wider than a lot of vibes I’ve seen, measuring in at 1 1/2 inches wide and 4 1/2 inches around, and that is a plus for those like me that like to feel really filled up without smashing your cervix into oblivion, lol.
The clit stimulator is about 2 inches long itself, and what I really liked about this one is that the tip is firmer then a lot of others, so it stays where you put it and doesn’t bend up and fail to pack the same punch it does closer to the actual bullet that makes it vibrate. Plus it’s shaped like a gorgeous dolphin rising from the waves. *grin* I’ve seen some vibes come out lately with beads that rotate under the shaft, and this one seems to be better designed then most that do, because the “beads” don’t shift around under pressure, and they are bigger, too. So you are getting the full amount of stimulation, not just moving the beads around.
I don’t currently have any lovers, so I’ve gotten a bit tighter than normal, and the initial penetration was intense. That first push is often my favorite part of sex, and the Krystal Dolphin did a great job of delivering that sensation. I was a little skeptical of the beads making a difference in how good it felt, but I must say, you can definitely feel them rotating and it feels like someone is massaging you, and who doesn’t like a good genital massage, right?! I have had experience with rotating shaft toys, and usually when you get the shaft going, the vibration loses a lot of speed, but this one held its own very well.
Now I was good and ready to feel that clitoral stimulator, and I cranked that baby up all the way and pretty much creamed on the spot, with one of those orgasms that makes your hands shake so much it’s hard to turn off the vibe or remove it, and the continued stimulatiuon just keeps making you cum, lol. Later I tried it slower and enjoyed a much more relaxed and less insane orgasm, lol. Sometimes I will turn it upside down, press the clit stimulator between my labia, and draw out a more subtle, but pleasurable feeling while reading erotica or watching an adult film.
I really enjoyed playing with this toy, and being a girly girl, I can appreciate it’s attractiveness as much as it’s capabilities, and I think anyone else would, too! The only drawback I can find is that it is extremely loud, and it’s a little too easy to accidentally move the controls while you use it. Still, this little Dolphin can part my ocean anytime! ;-P
Anti-Bacterial Sex toy cleaner
With so many people putting things up their butts these days, hygiene is more important than ever. It can’t be emphasized more than in our rears, especially when we put toys that were in those regions into our mouths or vaginas (which is discouraged for many toys, by the way). That’s why it is important to have a toy cleaner, something you can spray on or rub into your toys to get all that bacteria off, no matter where the toys have been. Soap and water by themselves are not good enough. The Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner is a very useful part of a sex toy collection. It’s inexpensive, and it has triclosan, which kills off bacteria. (It does not have any anti-HIV properties, however. It is limited to bacteria.)
There isn’t much to say in terms of a review. The container holds 4.3 fluid ounces (128 milliliters). The cleaner is water-based, odorless, and sprays on your toys. It is not a lubricant. Rinse off the spray after it has been on for a few moments. You can use this spray either before or after using your toys. It does not indicate whether you can spray it directly on body parts. You may find it most helpful for toys that can easily hide bacteria, like Anal beads and toys with a lot of crevices.
For those who have allergies, here are all the ingredients in this spray: deionized water, sodium C 14-16 olefin sulfonate, disodium lauroamphodiacetate (and) sodium trideceth sulfate, cocamidopropyl betaine, propylene glycol, triclosan, citric acid, methychloroisothiazolinone (and) methyllisothiazolinone, and tetrasodium EDTA.
You can’t be too clean when it comes to your dildos, Anal beads, and vibrators. Put this product in with your sex toy collection, or put it into your glove compartment when going out on your next one-night stand.
Introducing the Raven Riley Fleshlight masturbator
This blog is ugly as all fuck, but until I can get time to deal with it, we are just gonna wing it and go. And since I’ve decided that, I’m dedicating my Hello World post to the hottest chick on the ‘Net, Raven Riley.
I have been wanting to boink this chick since I every since I first came…hee hee…across her site. Now that she’s exploded into some sort of Internet Superstar, I have found that I am going to get my wish.
No, I am not gonna get to actually fuck her. I only wish. But I can do the next best thing, and that is fuck a replica of her pussy. That’s right, the good folks at the Fleshlight factory created a Raven Riley Fleshlight
for us. Can you imagine being the lucky fucker who got to cast this mold? Mamma mia, Raven’s pussy is so fine that Van Gogh would probably do a portrait of it if he were still alive. Thought you all might enjoy a few pics of Raven and her Fleshlight. We can get a pretty good look and do a comparison. Don’t know about you, but I’d love to do a taste test on that gash. Yummy! |
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Rabbit Pearl Vibrator
Available at The-Rabbit-Vibrator.com, the “Original” Vibratex Rabbit Pearl Vibrator is beautifully designed and superior long-lasting, with a quiet motor making it the best of its kind. The pearls roll and tumble at the opening of your vagina the Rabbit’s bulging midsection create a pulsating sensation against the vaginal walls as the amazing rabbit ears gently twitch the clitoris.
With its ultra-soft pink jelly exterior, yet tantalizingly powerful vibrations you are sure to love this little bunny. Variable speed controls for each of the two components.
Thanks to the tv show Sex and the City, this fantastic dual-action is one of the most popular vibrators around, the favorite of first-time vibe owners and vibrator aficionadas alike. Countless women consider the Rabbit Pearl Vibrator to be the best sexual pleasure toy ever invented.
