Good Vibrations
There was a time when sex toys just weren’t talked about. Then Charlotte on “Sex and the City” got hooked on the Rabbit Pearl Vibrator, and suddenly your best friend was confessing she had a toy of her own.
After that, even suburbanites were hosting “passion parties,” the rebellious little sister of Mary Kay makeovers that peddle waterproof vibrators instead of waterproof mascara.
Still, many women who are interested in trying a sex toy won’t take that next step and actually buy one.
“They’ve heard rumors about sex toys and getting addicted to them, or they feel that they’re not natural and that women should respond successfully only to their partners,” Queen said.
If you’re thinking your toy will kill your desire for your mate, don’t worry about it. “There’s nothing like the real thing,” Marino said. “A toy can’t give you feelings and emotions.”
Still, there are times when what it will give you is even more valuable than that.
“Lots of women are so attuned to bringing their partner pleasure that they can forget to focus on their own (needs),” Queen said. Toys, she explained, can help a woman figure out how much and what kind of stimulation she needs to be fully satisfied.
For women buying their first sex toy, I suggests starting with a simple vibrator for Clitoral Stimulation just to see if vibration is a sensation she likes. If a woman knows she likes sex, there’s no reason she shouldn’t move on to a toy that offers penetration and vibration, such as one of the many versions of the famous Rabbit vibrator. No matter what toy you’re using, she said, always make sure you use lubricant as well.
I stressed that adult toys can be just as useful for men.
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